Relationships-It's Complicated!!!

Did u ever think of two happily engaged humans..…..Neps……is dt possible…..possibly …not possible..

The reason is quite simple coz we don’t care abt small things n we struggle with big issues which would haven’t  arose  if those small things had been taken care of..

Every individual is different from other and that makes oneself special, different and COMPLEX. We are actually surrounded by good, nice, beautiful and loving humans just like the environment . It is always pure until some external particles mix up and create some action reaction till the equilibrium arrives. That’s how we are, we interact, react and at times get into mess..but the only way out for that is to communicate and harmonize with each other till that equilibrium arrives that’s wat we call as a WIN-WIN situation….but is that really true? Practically possible?

Again a big “NO”…coz this way out is so obvious, straight , simple and meant for normal man…then why the hell  we should follow this as we don’t want a so called obvious, straight , simple and normal solution….cos we think, think and think…which in turn makes us different, unusually good/bad ultimately..COMPLEX…

Think how about talking to your not so good fren on a bad day wen u feel low..heard of pen frnz…mail buddies or phone fren….these are new concepts and relief to those who are not good in face to face communication….i guess the best way of expressing your views is writing…as written words are always powerful than spoken words…the more you write the more you find the depth of conversation..

The only weapon to bridge any gap is to fill the gap…just like the gaps in between the fingers is filled up when you get another hand to hold your hand and fill that gap …not only in your fingers but also in your life…

So all relations, all humans in your life are there to somehow to make your life simpler and happier…the only thing is to find those relations, care for them, and preserve them  for the entire life.

Happy RelationsJJ